|A mom and her midget wrestlers|
What they didn't mention was just because a picture is worth a thousand words, doesn't mean those thousand words are worth anything. Exhibit A: the picture at right. If you find it in your heart to get past the hideous glasses, what words come to your mind as you look at me? Happy? Fulfilled? Has it all? Perfectly beautiful little children? (Oh wait, that's just me).
My sister posted this on Facebook a couple of years ago and I remember one of the comments reading "You look so happy!" Yet, at the time this picture was taken, I was anything but happy. I was still trying to get over my husband's first indiscretion, yet evidence of further indiscretions were starting to surface. Sometimes, when I think back to that time, I can see this photo in my mind. I know how sad I was on this day. I know that almost every night after I crawled into bed, the floodgates of my heart opened and silently cried myself to sleep. The hopelessness of my situation was getting hard to bear. The stress of hiding the truth from those I loved was eating away at my soul.
But this picture doesnt speak a thousand words about heartbreak or hopelessness or tears or broken dreams. So how about the pictures you see on a daily basis? We're usually so fast to judge photos or be jealous of the seemingly perfect lives displayed in those photos. Yet no one's life is perfect. I saw this quote recently: Be kind, for everyone you meet is fighting a hard battle. That's what I think when I see this picture. I was fighting a hard battle. Even now, I am fighting hard battles. And believe you me, I am NOT the only one fighting battles! Mine pale in comparison to others'. That's the funny thing about life. No matter who you are, there are hard times. So make an effort to be kind today, even to those who don't "deserve" your kindness. You don't know what battles they are facing.
A friend loves at all times...